Love, Life, Get screwed

In response to:Happy Blog (For once)

Tue, 16 Jan 2007 23:21:15 +0100

hey there.....

sorry for your troubles....women are strange creatures in general but get them pregnant and its a whole different ball game!

I gather voldermolt is her new partner. As a woman who had two children to my ex and then a third with my now husband i know how hard it is to be torn. DOn't get your wires crossed that pretty lady wants to get back with you and the fact that she is carrying your child. No matter what she will always have that bond with you but its your job to keep it strong.

Obviously you have poured your heart out to her and she rolled her eyes at you. You may of lost her affections but you have a whole lifetime to make your little girls world.
You have a fight on your hands here, but the moment you slack off and think that your life should come first seeing as your ex is making it hard for you to see little princess is the moment you will lose her for good.

Stand to your guns be calm. Be understanding. Let go of pretty lady and concentrate on little princess. Prove to pretty lady that you are 110% dedicated to your daughter.

Sounds harsh but your daughter will not remember you being there at her birth....but she will remember you always being there for her.

Exlain to pretty lady that you understand that its over for you but that you intend to be there as little princesses daddy and you both have to concentrate on giving her the very best in life. Even if voldermort is looming!!

May i end with this.....
i bumped into my ex in the street today we chatted nicely about this and that for about 10 mins when i walked away i realised that he didn't mention our two sons at anypoint and neither did I. It was like they never even existed.....please don't ever walk away from your baby....you might forget all about her.

In response to:The darkness has swallowed me.

Sun, 14 Jan 2007 22:18:03 +0100

Been here before, you or she doesn't realise who will come of worse in the end. I waited 9 years for my daughter. Whe my daughter realised what her mother was, she had nothing more to do with her, even another 10 years on. Like your Pretty lady, the mother of my daughter has four kids, all with different fathers, in bling I think they call that a 'Gold Digger' or something similar.

She won't go on like this forever, what goes round comes round. If it's any comfort, I've got a prefectly healthy relationship with my daughter now. Althought the wait was painful, but worth every day.

In a nutshell, Bollocks to her, her time will come. Don'tever consider getting back with her FFS! You'll be in an early grave, that's for sure.

Chin up, you will win eventually. Forget her and wait it out, painful - yes!

In response to:Just gonna type. Its good though, I think so.

Sun, 14 Jan 2007 18:05:09 +0100

Enjoyed this a lot

In response to:The inequality of it all.

Sat, 13 Jan 2007 12:26:32 +0100

sounds like you having some shit.in the words of triny lopez if you wana be happy the rest of youre life make an ugly woman youre wife.good luck

In response to:Recovery, temperary insanity

Mon, 08 Jan 2007 16:07:17 +0100

"All good things come to those that wait."
Ummmmmm! Still waiting here LOL after 65 years.

Small talk? These days if I say 'Good morning' It's treated as a deep and meaningful conversation.

Still, things ain't that bad really only six funerals to attend this week.

Only teasing ya. You have plenty of time on your side no need to rush anything. Mind you supporting Liverpool these days ain't exactly stimulating stuff is it? Sheeeesh losing to Arsenal of all teams. I'm off for a lie down at the memory
Tata M8
Keep smiling

In response to:Success, dating?

Fri, 05 Jan 2007 00:53:53 +0100

just text her for gods sake!

In response to:sad

Fri, 05 Jan 2007 00:52:47 +0100

very very very sad!

In response to:sad

Thu, 04 Jan 2007 22:46:47 +0100

next stop....blue ray disc player.

In response to:My forgotten quote!

Thu, 04 Jan 2007 18:25:32 +0100

Is it a Take That tune by any possible chance RM???

:-)

Tee Hee

Billy

xxx

In response to:Its a goodun

Thu, 04 Jan 2007 17:19:46 +0100

Oi !! Wheres the quote?

In response to:I'm in sooo much pain.

Wed, 03 Jan 2007 22:53:00 +0100

Hey Reformed !!!!!!!!

Hows you ???? Hope your well,

firstly thanks for adding me
secondly its good too hear yu abit more chirpy than your blogs of late........ Keep your head up mate, take care & keep in touch xxxx LDN Hunny xxxxx

In response to:Scary stuff!

Wed, 03 Jan 2007 18:30:33 +0100

I do not honestly Know I was hit by a car 4 months ago I saw it coming i was parked my life never flashed before me it just went into slow motion the car was doing 60 mph i was hurt but walked away. i have know people die for less who know the answer live every day like is your last is all i can say

In response to:What can i do?

Tue, 02 Jan 2007 15:24:14 +0100

Until she has officially been given custody by a court there's no way she can keep you out of your daughter's life, I don't think. Do what the man says, by this time you should have been to see Citizen's Advice. Also, (and this is even though I don't know who you are) whatever you do, stay out of trouble. You really don't want a court to think that you may be an unsuitable dad, but rather a person of 'upstanding character'.

Good luck, all the best, Tobbot

In response to:HA HA

Tue, 02 Jan 2007 15:17:53 +0100

Ok, what was that about? Interesting blog by the way, makes me appreciate all the more what I've got. Have a good un.

In response to:Jan 1st 2007

Mon, 01 Jan 2007 11:42:17 +0100

Hanf in there, go for access right away, as soon as the baby is born. Show them that you are serious about wanting contact with your baby. It will be hard. The one thing you have to be careful of is who she puts on the birth certificate as the father, if she doesn't put you on it will make your fight harder and longer.
Good Luck
Happy New year.

In response to:What can i do?

Sun, 31 Dec 2006 19:32:10 +0100

It sound like you are well out of it, It is just awful a child is involved in this! As you have already been told get some legal help FAST. Don't play her game of changing your MSN name! get a name and keep it something not connected. That will piss her off too if she thinks your ignoring her petty game! Dont get into any sort of slanging match with her that wont do the baby or you any good.Keep your chin up as the last thing your baby needs when she arrives is a depressed daddy! You need to be postive. And you could keep a paper diary for your little girl, not slagging her mum off but detailing how your feel so that one day no matter what happens and how things turn out she will know how you feel about her and that despite everything you loved her even before she arrived. Hope that has helped you even just a little bit!

In response to:New Years Eve Part 2

Sun, 31 Dec 2006 18:56:20 +0100

Whinging on websites won't help, so stop it, and go and get a solicitor on the case.

In response to:Here and now

Sun, 31 Dec 2006 14:59:42 +0100

Hi

Happy Hogmanay...just doing the rounds.

Billy

xxx